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flowerkings2012 56M
4144 posts
10/25/2019 8:39 am

Hmmm, need to revamp the profile pic then to eliminate that misleading impression your mouth is designed especially well for sucking a cock then! Can't believe you're trying to turn the blame on him lol

It does seem that with the overall quality of the site declining, to the point that it seems to be running around as if its arse is on fire, the lowest common denominator tribe among men seems ro be in the ascendancy. It's a fuck site, and you're meant to know your place, apparently


funcpl4cpl2 57M/59F  
11 posts
10/25/2019 8:43 am

Well, perhaps he is looking for sexual adventures that dont mimic yours. Personally, We think it was a real "Dick" move. Every relationship is different but should at least be going in the same direction.


bill50819 70M  
11 posts
10/25/2019 8:44 am

Should of blocked him before that. He wasn't showing you any respect before so why keep talking with him?
Just another jerk a want-be. You have no real idea if anything he said about himself was even true.


pocogato12 67F  
30529 posts
10/25/2019 8:52 am

Better a hole than a ho' but he was definitely way off the mark if has been chatting with you for a while. Crude in my opinion

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funsnellvillecpl 62M/50F  
2198 posts
10/25/2019 8:53 am

block his ass,he only cares about himself, just another self centered single guy , way to many on here


BestintheSouth1 27M
10 posts
10/25/2019 8:54 am

Tell em girl


IllgiveyouO 45M
16 posts
10/25/2019 8:59 am

What a douche.... I would say he is the hole... evening if you think something sometimes if should just not be said... I would say he blew his mabey chance at all.


2canchewtoo 46M
12 posts
10/25/2019 9:05 am

That is not a nice thing to say....


2Saltie2 62F  
1825 posts
10/25/2019 9:25 am

    Quoting flowerkings2012:
    Hmmm, need to revamp the profile pic then to eliminate that misleading impression your mouth is designed especially well for sucking a cock then! Can't believe you're trying to turn the blame on him lol

    It does seem that with the overall quality of the site declining, to the point that it seems to be running around as if its arse is on fire, the lowest common denominator tribe among men seems ro be in the ascendancy. It's a fuck site, and you're meant to know your place, apparently
Not just a fuck site if people want more. That is only ONE purpose. Even if everybody was here to meet it takes more then being the right section and distance to want to meet somebody.

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flowerkings2012 56M
4144 posts
10/25/2019 9:57 am

    Quoting 2Saltie2:
    Not just a fuck site if people want more. That is only ONE purpose. Even if everybody was here to meet it takes more then being the right section and distance to want to meet somebody.
Clearly you can't reead or understand sarcasm


Mystic_Writer 46M
3268 posts
10/25/2019 11:09 am

Tell him to get a Fleshlight. That really is just a hole.


jajo696 64F
1103 posts
10/25/2019 2:59 pm

Yes....get him a fleshlight or a head honcho.....and tell him, " this is what a hole looks like , use it as needed"

VERY uncool.....that comment he said to you. Ugh~


Tmptrzz 57F  
68020 posts
10/26/2019 5:54 pm

Just when I thought I couldn't be surprised by anything a man could say here. And then this.. I would of come back with some kind of smart ass answer myself. So sorry he said that to you hun, he was totally out of line with that one. I hope you have a great weekend..

Just your average every day run of the mill nana here!!!


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
10/26/2019 6:30 pm

    Quoting  :

Yet you continue to communicate with him,
Not a shock. He interests you.


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
10/26/2019 6:56 pm

Yes, that's hole. not a ho'.... Okay. So what? There are women who see some men , of her choosing as cock, and of course, men continue to communicate with her, too. Difference is, most men don't care if a woman only sees him as a way to fulfill her pleasure.

I've been chatting to a guy for a while, he just wants NSA sex, (which I don't, and he knows that) but we seem to get on, so we chat on here and externally. .... That's right.... you know exactly what he wants [NSA sex] , so I'm not buying this , " I'm pissed", nonsense, especially after 30 minutes of I.M. and who know how many other times of communicating with him.

Last night.. he jokingly said "suck my cock" .... Come on... you know he wasn't joking. That's exactly what he wants you to do. Can't really fault him, he knows what he wants, and he has spent time talking with you....so he tells you , "Suck my cock".... that's to be expected.

.. to which I replied "I'm more than a hole you know"! ,,,, and he said... "Not when I'm horny, horny, horny" I couldn't believe it, .. .... ha..Sure you could believe it. You're what? Almost 50. You've been around males since puberty. You know when males get horny x3 [apparently], that's very horny. He wants a hole, and you know that. You've known this easily since High School.

I was absolutely gobsmacked,.... Oh nonsense.


Why the hell would you say something like that!, he's a middle aged, educated man, and he comes out with THAT!..... Doesn't matter if he is middle aged and educated.... he's a male, he's on a sexually promiscuous site and you're a woman on that site, whom he has this communication thing going on with.

I replied "no. but I'm pretty pissed you said that" .....Ha... You're a 49 yo woman, on "This" site, and you knew full well you were not communicating with a sissy male.

that just absolutely sucker punched me, and I needed to get it off my chest .... Yeah, I'm not buying your shocked and surprised show on this one.


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
10/27/2019 3:53 pm

    Quoting  :

You've been talking and chatting with him for how long?!

Respect the man! Respect where you found him!!!
Where did you find him?! ...Yes, on a sex site. Did he ask you to buy some apples from him? ..NO!! Because this is not an Apple Orchard site.

If you wouldn't say it to a woman in real life, you shouldn't say it on here. .... But I would say it to a woman in real life. And so do other men say that to women in real life!!!

What makes you think men should not say that to you?! Look, if you were on eharmony, and chatting with a man, he is least likely to say, "Suck my dick I'm horny , horny, horny"..... geez get real!


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
10/27/2019 3:56 pm

YOU are hanging out exactly WHERE he would expect to find the woman who would suck his cock. RIGHT?!


Doovide 42M
48 posts
10/29/2019 2:20 pm

Sometimes us men say the most stupid,outrageous shit to try and get our legs over, or in you case seems,the use of your mouth.

Having a bit of banter, risque chat, tongue in cheek,ect,ect can be good, if it's a two way thing but jesus h christ, but from a guy whom you've been chatting to, who knows what you want comes out with something like that, and does not know what he;s done wrong, is a certfied arse.

And for those who are saying "this is just a sex site" ffs guys, sometimes it's not all about what is between your legs, it's what is within the mind and soul that counts too!


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
10/29/2019 4:39 pm

    Quoting Doovide:
    Sometimes us men say the most stupid,outrageous shit to try and get our legs over, or in you case seems,the use of your mouth.

    Having a bit of banter, risque chat, tongue in cheek,ect,ect can be good, if it's a two way thing but jesus h christ, but from a guy whom you've been chatting to, who knows what you want comes out with something like that, and does not know what he;s done wrong, is a certfied arse.

    And for those who are saying "this is just a sex site" ffs guys, sometimes it's not all about what is between your legs, it's what is within the mind and soul that counts too!
Sure, but who comes to this site to find mind and soul stuff..... anyway, the man she was talking to for sometime happened to have "Blowjob" on his mind. Should she be taken aback by that? No. She's not 16 yrs old.


Doovide 42M
48 posts
10/30/2019 12:45 pm

    Quoting Heathen_G:
    Sure, but who comes to this site to find mind and soul stuff..... anyway, the man she was talking to for sometime happened to have "Blowjob" on his mind. Should she be taken aback by that? No. She's not 16 yrs old.
Well heathen

It's all about morals and doing the right thing that counts, does it not?

After all if someone just wants to just get a BJ or get laid, they can simply pay for it, thats what escorts offers, meaningless sex.
Now on the other hand, making love with the right person, knowing what turns them on, and knowing what they like can lead to many a meaningful wonderful experience for both parties- a lot of people are on this site for that sort of encounter.

Okay this site is no dating site, but if you just looking to get a BJ, get laid because you've got the urge,be derogative to the opposite sex or treat them like a piece of meat, there are loads of sites where ladies (and men too) can offer people like that,their services.

Maybe you are one of them???


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
10/30/2019 6:57 pm

    Quoting Doovide:
    Well heathen

    It's all about morals and doing the right thing that counts, does it not?

    After all if someone just wants to just get a BJ or get laid, they can simply pay for it, thats what escorts offers, meaningless sex.
    Now on the other hand, making love with the right person, knowing what turns them on, and knowing what they like can lead to many a meaningful wonderful experience for both parties- a lot of people are on this site for that sort of encounter.

    Okay this site is no dating site, but if you just looking to get a BJ, get laid because you've got the urge,be derogative to the opposite sex or treat them like a piece of meat, there are loads of sites where ladies (and men too) can offer people like that,their services.

    Maybe you are one of them???
If this was all about morals, "Doing the right thing", nobody would be on this site, especially being naked, or showing [in some way, arousing photo images], right? Yes. So that shoots the debate of "Morals" out of the water.

...As for meaningless sex, that is a lot of what this site offers. Aside from the "Life style" [sharing your spouse with other], this site offers anyone the opportunity to try and hookup to get meaningless sex. Many would rather go about getting meaningless sex this way, [essentially finding someone to date] instead of finding a prostitute.

"Making love", doesn't really exist. The "Right person" you refer to, would have to be a person you've been with for 3 or more years. Not someone you just met, on a social site. In this case , a sex site. Those who are here for that "Sort of encounter" are mistaken. At best they'll find infatuation, and within 3 years they will know if it's more than that. But most encounters from this site only last a matter of weeks , or months.

....Actually this site is a dating site, the perfect place to find a blowjob, while, for instance, Eharmony is a relationship site [the slower way to get a blowjob]. At least that is what they advertise [not the blowjob]. And Match advertises you'll find love. You don't see public broadcasts advertising this site, because it's a sex site. Men and women come to this site, fill out a profile , say what kind of sex they're into, and who they want to have that sex with [men, women, homosexuals ].

Oh you can be derogative to anyone on any site if that is your goal. But this is the correct site to be on if you are looking for a quick hookup , blowjob. If you're on this site to find a more meaningful affair, you're on the wrong type of site.

Don't you like women treating you like a piece of meat? I like it when they do that. In fact on this site, you're more likely to encounter that kind of woman, than on [we'll say] Eharmony or Match.

I know. I know... you're trying to stand up for the woman like she is right to be shocked a man she finds on a sex site wants a blowjob and thinks of her only as a hole when he is horny, horny , horny. Would she have encountered that on Eharmony? Likely not right away , but eventually , that is if she is seeking heterosexual men. Eventually the topic of blowjobs, sex, eating her out, will eventually come up.

Oh yes...and telling a woman you want a blowjob, is not even close to being disparaging.


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
10/30/2019 7:17 pm

I'll also point out Doovide, that guy didn't say she was just a hole until she mentioned she's not just a hole.

She wrote, ""....to which I replied "I'm more than a hole you know"! ,,,, and he said... "Not when I'm horny, horny, horny" "".

All he did , according to her, was say [and jokingly] , "Suck my cock".

Is that being disparaging or derogative? No. And we don't even know the entire transcript of this conversation that led up to this comment.


missthee 53F  
4020 posts
11/1/2019 2:01 am

The things that come out of their... holes!


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
11/1/2019 3:49 pm

    Quoting  :

LOL..you're kidding, right? He didn't identify you has a "Hole". That is your own narrative.

You said you'd been chatting for awhile, on here , and externally, so you know where you found him, and what his profile says, and what he has always wanted from you.

You typed on I.M. , "I'm more than a hole you know"! .....he replied typed, "Not when I'm horny, horny, horny" .

And you couldn't believe that? What did you expect him to say? Something charming and apologetic? Come on!

I should know better, I've been on here a long time..... Yes , not only know better, but also expect this place is just tiny bit more raw than eharmony.

ha..geez, "Someone who actually sees the point of the blog"? ....are you kidding me? You messed up, and you wanted a pat on the head, take all responsibility off you and someone to blame that guy.

Hey.. you called yourself a hole.. that's on you, not him.... he just wanted a blowjob. [and he's on the appropriate site to maybe find one].


Heathen_G 61M
7171 posts
11/2/2019 2:07 pm

    Quoting  :

You.. well you might.. wouldn't go up to a woman in a bar, and say..I need a hole to fuck are you game on? ..... No....Even I would not do that. BUT...if she and I were talking for hours, yes, I'd mention to her about sucking my cock.

I don't see why I or anyone should be treated any different on here..... You're not treated any different. You were talking to the guy for hours, or days....and he "JOKINGLY" said something about you sucking his cock........and YOU called yourself a "Hole" first. Not him.

Just because it's a |"sex site" .... Sex site or not a sex site. If there is sexual attraction, stuff will be said. That's normal.

If you wouldn't say it to someones face.. .... But I, or any man confident enough, WOULD SAY it to a woman's face , usually when there's been an on going conversation , and there being evidence of sexual attraction.

why would you say it on here.......1. Because you and him talked for hour /days on and off this site...... 2. Sexual attraction became apparent to him.....3. yawn...because this is a sex site, and he was here looking for sex.

And ...no, I'm not being obtuse. I'm pointing out most of all that was your fault, and you being shocked by his comment was silly. AND...there was no evidence he thought of you as a "Hole" until you mentioned, "I"m not just a hole". ..... His reply to you was a reasonable and honest one , too. When men get extremely horny, any woman could become just a convenient hole.
As when women want a drink at a bar, she looks around for a man she can manipulate into buying her drinks.... he becomes a convenient wallet.


InPrimeAgeGuy 41M

11/14/2019 1:45 pm

wow thats pretty low


fakesrevealed 44M/47F  
63 posts
11/19/2019 8:24 am

It amazes me how many people think this place is something other than an adult oriented site. Now I'm not saying the way he said was ok, but to be surprised is ignorance on your part.

Oh and to the others who make the stupid statement..."bet he wouldn't say that in a bar"..... we aren't in a bar! This is an adult site so please stop making that statement, it makes you look stupid!


zarman50 57M
29 posts
11/19/2019 6:35 pm

Yes he should not have said that and sorry for that, But let me me ask if he just wants to get his rocks off and that is not what you want why chat with him?
Also have you seen some of the Women's profiles on here you can see to Cleveland and you have to wonder? I have read a lot of you blogs they are awesome you are super smart maybe you just had an off night. Still know way to treat a Women but sometimes you need to read your audience. Have a great night and maybe tell the guy next time I want a meal not a snack.


fakesrevealed 44M/47F  
63 posts
11/21/2019 9:01 am

    Quoting  :

Trying to say a bar and this site is about the same is a stretch......a really long stretch and in all honesty, kind silly to even relate the two.

People don't show up in bars with their dicks or boobs hanging out like they do here.


kzoopair 68M/66F  
25608 posts
11/21/2019 5:40 pm

Sex site or not, that was just plain rude. I think your reaction is appropriate. I'm sorry that happened to you.

I've been away for a while but I see the same old trolls and same old trolling behavior is alive and just as sick as ever.

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Crimsonsurise 41M
24 posts
11/23/2019 5:02 am

That's terrible


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