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......Re live your worst day , in order to re live your best day ? This is something that came to me while listening to TV yesterday. It gave me pause.... could easily recall my worst day and thinking of it brought on emotion too strong to dwell on. yet.....try as i might, the best day was/is difficult to recall. In trying to examine this, i feel its partly due to females be wired to be care givers...and making sure that others have best days. Even though , we have wonderful times, moments and memories, describing it as ' best' may be difficult. I like to think that i am a glass half full person, but maybe , just maybe in the underlying me, the opposite is true. So....would you ?
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I'm trying to think of my worst day and there are just so many, so I'll get back to THAT one. Now I'm stumped about picking out my BEST memory. Damn... Ya know? I'll stick with having lived through all of them only once. Yep! 👍 😊 Is that a tie? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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10/24/2020 12:03 pm |
Have had to many of both so i personally just like to take them as they roll ,also now as i look back i can laugh at the bad ones
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10/24/2020 1:34 pm |
I would I'd love a do-over.
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I'm trying to think of my worst day and there are just so many, so I'll get back to THAT one. Now I'm stumped about picking out my BEST memory. Damn... Ya know? I'll stick with having lived through all of them only once. Yep! 👍 😊 Is that a tie? I thought it was interesting and required some introspection though. Thanks for your thoughts~~
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Have had to many of both so i personally just like to take them as they roll ,also now as i look back i can laugh at the bad ones I cant remember a ...best.....so oh heck no...i cannot relive the ..worst . Thanks for your comment ~~
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I would I'd love a do-over. If....i could change the happenings of those days. Oh ya....im there...lol. Thanks for your thoughts ~~
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Like you I can tell you the worst whole day of my life, but can only recall little snippets of time that I was happiest. The moment I held my daughter for the first time comes to mind. I'm not sure if it's "woman" thing, or a "codependent" thing as far concerning others.
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The happiest days were when I had my daughter and I got a Mother's Ring from my ex-husband one year for Christmas before we got married. As the worst days I have plenty of those but I do not want a redo. The good and the bad has made me stronger and looking back God gave me that life for me to grow up and lead a better life now. The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness. 
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Nope. They are memories.
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I agree a death , actually few of them , is my worst as well. Cant even consider re living those. " More to come ".....Love that !! Thanks for your thoughts ~
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Like you I can tell you the worst whole day of my life, but can only recall little snippets of time that I was happiest. The moment I held my daughter for the first time comes to mind. I'm not sure if it's "woman" thing, or a "codependent" thing as far concerning others. Thanks girl ~
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The happiest days were when I had my daughter and I got a Mother's Ring from my ex-husband one year for Christmas before we got married. As the worst days I have plenty of those but I do not want a redo. The good and the bad has made me stronger and looking back God gave me that life for me to grow up and lead a better life now.
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Nope. They are memories. For the most part , i agree with you. Heres hoping our BEST is yet to come ( sigh ) Thanks for your comment ~~
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I hear THAT granny.....loud n clear! Thank you ~
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Does this mean that your worst and your best were both all in 24 hours ? WoW......that musta been a roller coaster of a day ~~ Thanks for your thoughts...
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like many on here... i am solid on what my worst day was. but can't really say what was the best. i'm in a bit of a covid funk so maybe that is blocking me remembering the best? the fact i can't name the best day... i'm going to opt to not relieve something that caused PTSD.
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like many on here... i am solid on what my worst day was. but can't really say what was the best. i'm in a bit of a covid funk so maybe that is blocking me remembering the best? the fact i can't name the best day... i'm going to opt to not relieve something that caused PTSD. Thanks for your comments....
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No I would never ever want to relive my worst day no matter what might be promised in return plain & simple.
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No I would never ever want to relive my worst day no matter what might be promised in return plain & simple. Thanks for your thoughts...
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What a wonderful, thought provoking post. Thank you. I’ve had so many great days that will live in my memories forever, where I can “relive” them whenever I like just by recalling them. I think that would be enough for me. If actually reliving them means I’d have to actually relive my worst days, I think I’d have to pass. PLEASE COME AND CHECK OUT MY BLOG AND IF YOU ENJOYED IT LEAVE ME A COMMENT. KEEP IT SEXY!!
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What a wonderful, thought provoking post. Thank you. I’ve had so many great days that will live in my memories forever, where I can “relive” them whenever I like just by recalling them. I think that would be enough for me. If actually reliving them means I’d have to actually relive my worst days, I think I’d have to pass. Agree with you most definitely, id have to take a pass~ Thank you for this comment and your thoughts. Stay Safe !
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12/1/2020 10:48 am |
I have no clue what the worst day in my life could be. None of it is perfect but it made me who I am. I try to learn from each new day. Wishy washy me but what would be the point ..
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I think probably I have re-lived my best day and my worst day, writing about both on these blogs years back. They were that one extra special night with the woman of my dreams, and the day she ended our relationship. But, now that I am, (as far as I ever will be, lol) over those long ago all consuming emotions, I can definitely state that I find the "best day" easier to recall - probably simply because it is a very fond memory, and because I needed to consciously forget the worst day in order to pick up the pieces.
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11/26/2021 8:15 pm |
Like you I can tell you the worst whole day of my life, but can only recall little snippets of time that I was happiest. The moment I held my daughter for the first time comes to mind. I'm not sure if it's "woman" thing, or a "codependent" thing as far concerning others.
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Interesting thought. Best and worst days are hard to rate in order.as a human trait, I've found that with time, the worst seems not so bad and the best, through the magic of imagination, are remembered as probably better than they actually were. I think that maybe it's a reflection of the individual's outlook on life, to minimize the bad and maximize the good or,in some cases, to do the opposite. The old expression"the older I get, the better I was" expresses the tendency to embellish the past. If reliving the best and worst were done in the context of my memory, I could do it easily. If done in realistic recall, no, I dont think I'd do it.
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