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MulleenofMelb 58M
3024 posts
7/17/2019 9:37 pm

behind every cover
a different lover
even if all the same
some be good some be the bane
of your existence and life
met at wrong times or places
when you weren't in
or they were drink on gin
who can know the tides
of a human heart that abides
controlled by emotion intellect
and marching to a different beat
so we pursue those we think we know
even though on the outside it does not show
what they really are or what they think
and into our own imaginations sink
building who we want to be on small foundations
and hoping when the time is right
we will still be their guiding star bright.

Thoughts in sensual pleasure to erotic writing writ.

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billyray234 60M
759 posts
7/17/2019 9:44 pm

Nice to hear, a naughty story


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
7/18/2019 12:13 am

You are right on the part of pattern behavior my lady
We all follow specific traits and characteristics that are embedded in our own behavioral patterns
It is a loop actually, that needs lots of "soul" searching in order to break

As for Clamming Up, as the term goes, it is usually a male treat, coming from unprocessed feelings due to the narcissistic overgrown side of the ego
- females have it as well, but with different reactions usually

Which brings us back into the loop of breaking the pattern suggesting our choices on our side
( a conundrum , isn't it ?)

Cheers - P


hardenuffcgy 37M
12 posts
7/18/2019 1:37 am

true


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
7/18/2019 2:35 am

it's like that song lyric, "know when to walk away, know when to run". there is always relationship regret. a reason someone is an ex. that type of regret hasn't made me cynical either but it sure as hell has made me cautious; perhaps overly so. yea, i'ma make damn sure i won't ever get caught in a shituation again.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
7/18/2019 5:27 am

For me, it's about honesty. IF it just incredible sex, and everyone knows that, and is fine with that - COOL. But the problems become when expectations differ. This is one reason why I vastly prefer my playmates to be fellow married cheaters (or ones truly in an open situation.).

Sorry you got hurt.

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fido976 48M

7/18/2019 7:16 am

nice


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
7/18/2019 10:58 am

Sorry that things didn't work out for you both, sounds like you had everything except for the HONEST COMMUNICATION. That is so important in a relationship as we need to talk about what each other want in our relationships. I hope you have a wonderful day hun..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
7/18/2019 6:22 pm

Hey Lusty,
..........All that we can do is try to learn from the past,.......and not repeat it,.......Easier said than done!........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
7/18/2019 7:51 pm

And just like you commented in your last statements, this type of behavior is not limited to adult sites, it can and will happen anywhere, so remember history , study the partner a bit harder to start with and try not to make these same mistakes,, Not only is it a big mental disruption in one's life, it can be expensive and this goes to women also,

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yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
7/19/2019 12:32 am

I so agree with you that adulting can be complex. The one good thing about having a blog is that I can see my patterns. Oh boy are they glaring..like an EKG. You are right that one can meet assholes anywhere whether Fuck Hub or another normal dating website. My last liason with someone from here was wonderful in so many ways. But he had a hangup with meeting someone from this site. I truly believe he could not respect a woman and think her relationship material having met her on here. So he met someone on another normal website and thinks she is so much more suitable for him and what he has been looking for for years. Oh yeah. But at least he let me know and did not leave me hanging like so many other guys who would just ghost someone they were no longer interested in. He said he loved me and my dogs. But he was not in love with me. I took that to mean he cared about me. He wants to remain my friend. My friends and family tell me to not bother with him at all but I am not willing to let go completely. So I text him once a week when I know he is not with his "new girlfriend" as he has a guy's night out. I tell him what is going on whether my dating fiascoes or family stuff. Now here is my question: He will talk about sex with me and ask me how things are with other guys. But he won't say anything about his new girlfriend except that he is still happy with her. So he won't kiss and tell which makes me feel all the more cheap. This hurts a lot. So I have to really just put him in the rear view mirror. I just feel so gosh darn inadequate.

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scoupe42 60M

7/21/2019 3:39 am

Thanks for sharing your life with us, life is a learning experiences.


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