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HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
12/11/2019 5:20 pm


tsn4fun2 48M/46F  
257 posts
12/11/2019 5:34 pm

Good job buddy! Kudos to you for restraint! Was her friend the one she was trying to arouse or was she eyeballing around room to see who was looking? There’s quite a few answers to that IF you know the whole story but from where I’m sitting I think she MAY have wanted the attention. So no I don’t think you’re the perv.


tsn4fun2 48M/46F  
257 posts
12/11/2019 5:43 pm

Lmao. Yeah... sho enough!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/11/2019 6:15 pm

You didn't do anything about it because you lack the confidence to approach the woman. That is really unfortunate.

If a woman is showing a lot of leg in her short skirt, she is doing so intentionally. She has actually just invited you to look.

This does not make you, or anyone, a creeper or perve. Your mom lied to you.

For you to be a creeper or perve, you'd have to do an UNWANTED action of invading her privacy somehow.

But in this case, in public, rubbing her legs, she wore a short-show-off-legs kind of dress.....This was WANTED. She wore baiting clothing.

You're not being a creep or perving. She knew the consequences once she stepped into her short dress. You really think women have no idea what thoughts a short dress will provoke?!

However, while you are absolved of being a creep and perve... you are a shy man with no confidence in himself. That you are guilty of being.

Next time you like what you see, man the fuck up, and go talk to her!


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
12/11/2019 6:19 pm

Put it this way.

If she's showing it, I'm looking !!


rookysrg31 59M/56F
76 posts
12/11/2019 6:34 pm

nothing wrong with looking


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/11/2019 7:47 pm

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There is nothing "Common sense" about avoiding women because she has inviting clothing on [in some cases, "Come fuck me" clothing"].

But there is, "Lacking confidence", especially if you allow your masculinity , your manhood , to be marginalized and convinced you're evil for having a penis!!

The pussy "Metoo" mob has really done a number on men. And now it's times to retake our manhood and be men again.

Women claim they are strong. Well goody for the woman. But if she has to pull molestation entrapment on you because you were attracted to her legs? That is clearly wrong... clearly not strong.

There is no "Trap" walking up to a woman whom you are attracted to, and talking to her, finding out where she's at , if she has any attraction to you, if she would like to go out with you , ----all that is [and always has been] standard procedure.

Women , being overtly sexual, either on purpose or accident , is not childish. A man running away from a woman he finds sexy? THAT'S childish....and shameful.


Freak2freakweare 52M/46F
10 posts
12/11/2019 11:15 pm

Gotta go for that man!!! At worse u may get rejected but at least ya tried


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/12/2019 3:14 am

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This ain't the 60s. .... Too bad it isn't, in some ways... but it is almost the 20's.

Your ideals are shot to hell. .... No. Just your own sense of being a male is shot to hell.


You'd be better off to never LOOK at a bitch than rot in prison over a damn lie. ... I wouldn't know she's a bitch until I talked to her , and if you had the backbone to talk to a woman, neither would you.


And they do it all the time. ...They certainly try from time to time.. But that should never stop a male from approaching a female.

Your "masculinity" is outdated ... No.. My sense of masculinity is great . Yours is removed. You let the skanks emasculate you. You are effectively castrated. ....And that's a shame.

and inappropriate now. ....Being a man, going up to a woman and letting her know you find her sexually pleasing, is NOT inappropriate.

I see a future prison term for another well meaning gentleman. .... No man is ever going to jail because he is attracted to a woman and he tells a woman he wants to fuck her.

As for "Gentleman"? .. THAT is inappropriate behavior for a man , these days. That kind of man, today, is allowing a woman to doormat him. Women have nagged, stomped their feet, and whined about wanting to be recognized as social equals. Even go so far as to express they want a Matriarchy , and down with Patriarchy.. ... The male that prances about being a gentleman is likely dealing with low self esteem, today.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/17/2019 7:47 pm

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You, running scared from women , is not going to solve anything , but only weaken, yourself, as a man.

You were 10 years old in 1980, about the most feminine decade ever to try and grow into a man, so your responses are expected.

The world is becoming different. But how different and where it will be different is up to us.
Allowing some groups of women to mess with masculinity, calling men toxic, calling men sexist, calling men misogynists, threatening livelihoods of men, should not be tolerated.

A woman shows some leg , and you want to run the other way. That is shameful. That is weak. Please don't have any sons. You're not equip to raise them.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/20/2019 1:09 pm

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You are so pathetic 12a. Women have you running scared, so , so very pathetic. You are right though, this isn't the 1980's. The decade that produced the most homo's. But it was also a fun decade for straight men. A close second to the 1960's.

Although the best thing about the 1980's was "Women Mud Wrestling" venues in town.... me and my friends would go to these places and wrestle muddy oily women, for glorious fun.

So while part of the decade was grooming you tykes to lose their masculinity , turn homo, wear makeup ....the other part was sexually exploiting women, the concept that women are for sex and entertainment........ The truth is, women still are for sex and entertainment. That will never change. Sure, men, as yourself 12a, will lose his balls to his mom or just social pressure to castrate himself, as evidently you have.

No men are going to get locked up because he approaches a woman showing some skin on her leg..... Man the fuck up!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/21/2019 7:05 pm

If she is showing you her sexy legs/thighs and in a short skirt, sitting down-are you a pervert or creeper to look and appreciate the fine art? .... Nope.

But NOT going over there , to a woman you'd like to get to know, and introducing yourself shows a serious lack of self confidence.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/21/2019 7:20 pm

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Men have stopped helping women - Not out of lack of chivalry, but self preservation. .... No .

Men have stopped "Helping" women, because chivalry is not for this time. Women insist she is a man's social equal.

However, what you were describing doesn't require a man to approach her playing Chivalry-boy. She had a cast on her leg, ...could just as well been a man with cast on his leg..... "Helping"/ "Asking that person [if they need help] isn't being chivalrous, it's just being decent.

And you , 12a , didn't want to be decent, you didn't want to ask her if she needed help..... because bonehead females have you running scared. That is truly pathetic.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
12/26/2019 2:12 pm

DREW... You're not going to get arrested for introducing yourself to a woman , and finding out where you both can go from there.


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