~~Thank You Abrams J~~  

jajo696 66F
519 posts
3/12/2021 1:12 pm
~~Thank You Abrams J~~


.....see first comment

jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/12/2021 1:23 pm

First post of 2021 here...

Around 3 months ago, i received an email here from a gold member. A very nice first email asking about my distant / age parameters. I responded....explained and thanked him for his note.

He then wrote again....and asked me to use a certain code to redeem at the site. Said he had bought these and didnt know if there was an expiration date . He instructed me how to proceed and as it turned out the code was for 3 months of Gold membership.

What a wonderful surprise for me...and a nice nice gesture from him. We have emailed a few times since then and talked on IM maybe once. Ohhhh.....and i almost forgot, he also gifted me some points along the way.

For all the rude , crude , lies and fakes that we encounter on site....there is also the once in a while genuinely thoughtful and kind person. Its really like finding that blooming flower in a field of weeds.

So...this gold is about to expire. I had to publicly thank him for allowing me the access to view profiles /vids for the past 90 days.

Its kernels such as this that keep me signing on each day. Thank you AJ ...Huggsss


SingleInGR 53M
276 posts
3/12/2021 2:53 pm

What a very nice thing for someone to do for you.


Coach4BustyFWB 51M
38 posts
3/12/2021 3:00 pm

It is nice to know there are good people out there. What a generous person he was.


jolielaide 49F  
1583 posts
3/12/2021 3:06 pm

there are some real, genuine folks on here. i'm glad you had a chance to jump around for at least the 90 days and do some stuff you wouldn't typically get a chance to do. the site is s'pose to fun, after all.


Paulxx001 64M
18960 posts
3/12/2021 3:17 pm

Sounds like you have a plan... and a smile.

And... THAT'S, all that counts...
Now about this secret code he shared with you? ๐Ÿค”

๐Ÿ˜ฎโ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿท๐Ÿท


GhostofH 62M
21207 posts
3/12/2021 3:18 pm

A 'Man' with class.....


Massass1963 57M  
1395 posts
3/12/2021 4:26 pm

That is great for you! I am temporarily gold from a pretty decent deal, also. So, I have poked around at profiles that I have had an interest in for some time.
There are a few good people on here. Too bad there are so many that aren't. In the end, I guess finding those few makes it worth it.


BiggLala 49F  
29595 posts
3/12/2021 4:26 pm

That was quite generous of him.
(let me know if you need more points)

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sexyldy1000 60F  
8154 posts
3/12/2021 5:02 pm

I have been a firm believer that on this site, you get back what you give. The gentleman responded favourably to the vibe you put out. If you need more points, let me know ๐Ÿ˜Š.

Stimulate my mind and let's see what happens
Stepping Back Is Good For the Soul


lonlyforlove2 78M
18829 posts
3/12/2021 5:36 pm

It can happen and does..if you need points just ask. seems like I got a lot of them and really don't use them..
Have a nice evening..There are a few real men here..Enjoy!!!!


TicklePlease 53F  
13319 posts
3/12/2021 6:16 pm

That's so nice to hear!


lunchandconvo 50F
3056 posts
3/12/2021 8:46 pm

i hear ya about the watching the dwindling points!
it's nice to get a gift of them!


superbjversion2 65F
22192 posts
3/12/2021 9:33 pm

I've always said this place is like panning for gold ... a lot of sludge but occasionally you find a nugget!

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


PonyGirl1965 55F
15183 posts
3/12/2021 11:31 pm

How sweet!


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:27 am

    Quoting SingleInGR:
    What a very nice thing for someone to do for you.


Agree...and it was soooo out of the blue...just like his initial email. Restores my faith . Thanks for stopping by and commenting ~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:30 am

    Quoting Coach4BustyFWB:
    It is nice to know there are good people out there. What a generous person he was.
Indeed!! A nice man.....asked nothing in return. We have just an occasional email. Thanks for your thoughts ~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:32 am

    Quoting jolielaide:
    there are some real, genuine folks on here. i'm glad you had a chance to jump around for at least the 90 days and do some stuff you wouldn't typically get a chance to do. the site is s'pose to fun, after all.
Jolie...and he is one of those you speak of. It HAS been fun....you re right !! I cant thank him enough. Thank you too for these thoughts ~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:39 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Sounds like you have a plan... and a smile.

    And... THAT'S, all that counts...
    Now about this secret code he shared with you? ๐Ÿค”

    ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ—โ—๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿท๐Ÿท
Hi Paul....no....no plan....but it was so out of the blue...yeah a definite smile. I was surprised and it was special. Lol ....no secret code. He explained that a while ago, he bought gift certificates....and didnt know if they expired or not. He didnt tell me this beforehand though....he just asked me to ' try this out', so i thought i was doing him a favor by trying out those numbers.....and lo and behold....
Yup....a wonderful surprise.
Thanks for your thoughts....i hope all is good in your world ~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:43 am

    Quoting GhostofH:
    A 'Man' with class.....
Both descriptive terms = accurate . Thanks for recognizing that and commenting as such ~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:45 am

    Quoting Massass1963:
    That is great for you! I am temporarily gold from a pretty decent deal, also. So, I have poked around at profiles that I have had an interest in for some time.
    There are a few good people on here. Too bad there are so many that aren't. In the end, I guess finding those few makes it worth it.
I agree ..finding the ones that make being here worthwhile = priceless. Enjoy the Gold.....

Thanks for stopping in ~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:49 am

    Quoting BiggLala:
    That was quite generous of him.
    (let me know if you need more points)
La.....i definitely was . Such a nice man....expected nothing in return.
Thanks girl for the offer....i will remember if i run low on points.

Over the years, the gifts, the point giveaways....ive amassed quite a few . I also give em away to random standards from time to time. I believe in sharing ~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:56 am

    Quoting sexyldy1000:
    I have been a firm believer that on this site, you get back what you give. The gentleman responded favourably to the vibe you put out. If you need more points, let me know ๐Ÿ˜Š.
i believe the same Ldy....karma begets karma. I always respond to mail...i think its rude not to acknowledge . Even if ur jerk....i tell ya so....nicely...lol

So....he just picked up on that vibe.

Thank you for your point offer. As i just told La above you....i have quite a few...and for years have been giving em away to random Standards. I will remember if i need more...

Always love your vibe too~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:58 am

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    It can happen and does..if you need points just ask. seems like I got a lot of them and really don't use them..
    Have a nice evening..There are a few real men here..Enjoy!!!!
lonly....and you are one of the real ones and one of the nice ones. I thank you !!

Now you know you can use ur points for Gold?

Thanks for your thoughts~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 12:59 am

Tickle....i know..i agree....very sweet of him !! Thanks for stopping by~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 1:00 am

    Quoting lunchandconvo:
    i hear ya about the watching the dwindling points!
    it's nice to get a gift of them!
Heyya ...Lunchand. Ive sent you some girlie....Njoy ~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 1:04 am

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    I've always said this place is like panning for gold ... a lot of sludge but occasionally you find a nugget!
lol...zactly right Superb...

i always rem ur tagline.....the odds are good , but the goods are odd. That always cracks me up.....sooooo true !

Thanks for your thoughts....

ps...i LOVE that you found someone, hes lucky ~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/13/2021 1:06 am

PG.....yep...extremely sweet. Hes one of the good ones.

Thanks for your comment~~


lindoboy100 58M
23230 posts
3/15/2021 4:32 am

Ah McJJ, you are so right, it's the wee gems like this gentleman that keep us coming back. Though they are few and far between, it just takes one to make us smile.

What a nice fellow he seems to be. And you deserve it!

Pull ma finger.........


HSV2inHollywood 46M
24 posts
3/19/2021 10:56 am

Generosity must be contagious. Thank you very much. I am taken back by this site sometimes, like today, when I logged in.

You're a true gift to this online community.


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/19/2021 12:45 pm

Thank you Lindo.....you re right, we arent expecting every interaction to be positive, but respect and humility go a long way, in my book.

I emailed him and asked him to look here....and he wrote back and said he was blushing. lol Ya..he is a good guy!

Thanks for your thoughts. Stay safe ~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/20/2021 8:39 am

    Quoting HSV2inHollywood:
    Generosity must be contagious. Thank you very much. I am taken back by this site sometimes, like today, when I logged in.

    You're a true gift to this online community.
Just paying it forward....ive been fortunate to win a few point giveaways in the blogs and believe in sharing with others. Us Standard need to stick together...lol

Enjoy them.....you are most welcome ~~


backpocket13 47M
8927 posts
3/22/2021 9:13 am

Hey Darlin,
..........Itโ€™s Nice to Know that thereโ€™s still a few Gentlemen out there!.........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


flannel_light 58F  
2893 posts
3/27/2021 3:47 pm

That was nice of him.


May the light bring peace into your life.
Ramona


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/27/2021 4:17 pm

    Quoting backpocket13:
    Hey Darlin,
    ..........Itโ€™s Nice to Know that thereโ€™s still a few Gentlemen out there!.........
    Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
Hey Mr Pocket....i know i know...it was soooo very cool..and thoughtful of him. A nice man I agree....nice to know they are out there. Thanks for stopping by ~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/27/2021 4:20 pm

    Quoting  :

I completely agree....and it was so out of the blue. I appreciate it...and him !

Welcome back...ive missed you.

Thanks for your thoughts ~~


jajo696 66F
3229 posts
3/27/2021 4:45 pm

Ur right...Light....it was super nice and a wonderful surprise. A nice nice man. When i told him to come here and read my...thanks....he wrote back and said he was ..blushing...lol.

Thanks for your thoughts....


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