Looking for women only! I need to explain, I am a gentleman first. I initiate conversation here the way I would in person. We are all here for some adult fun, but I will not stoop to a low level ever. Once we establish a connection...meaning, more than one day chatting, then we can get our freak on how we like. As the title suggests, I have hit that point in my life where I am going crazy with boring, meaningless, once-a-month, sad sex. I am happy in my life, and do not want any change. I hope you are as well. I am looking for one person, and one person only, to have an escape with each other. Get out of the day to day rut, and meet up for some wild steamy fun during the week. This is something that will take time, but very rewarding. I am overly cautious on being discreet, so I hope you can be patient. I feel, act, and look much younger than my age. (do we all say this?) I have lots of interests and sports I play. I workout regularly, so I am athletic, but just average. I have straight and clean teeth, and expect the same. I am a professional, and look to find equal.

My Ideal Person First, and foremost, my ideal would smoke/drug free.
Second, no piercings other than ears. These are just things that are the greatest of importance.

The next major aspect of my ideal is; location. Being local will grant the ease of escape, and keep it the constant, we are both looking for. If you are further than 20 miles, it just will not work.

I am looking for someone preferably married.
Possibly someone who works from home, and has the flexibility during the day for play time.
I do not mind older, but no one under 35. **it was brought to my attention that younger could offer some different fantasy scenarios. While I have not met younger yet, I would be open to try anything.**
Someone who holds discretion to the highest standards.
Someone willing to chat and learn about each other before sharing pictures. I won't ask for yours, and it will take a while for me to send mine. I am confident in my appearance enough to ask that.
I would like them comfortable where they are in their marriage/family/job, but want something added. I am not changing my situation, and I will not expect you to.
My ideal would be confident in their appearance. Understanding that we are not 18 anymore, and are real and natural.
Be neat, clean, and well dressed. They take pride in their appearance.
Someone who enjoys being sensual, with poise and grace.
I am looking for someone who loves to kiss. Loves to have foreplay.
I want someone who wants to go for more than 20 minutes, and more than one time.
I would like someone who loves to give and receive oral.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Any role where it is of a sensual and soft dominate role,
seducing me or forcing me to sexually please them. A kind,
soft spoken guide, rather than a painful or humiliating
way.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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