My old profile got deleted, so this is a new name. I'm an early 40s "average joe" kind of guy. I'm 5'10" tall 195 lbs and have pics to send just ask.

My Ideal Person UpdateI've been on and off this site for a while and currently decided to look for a NSA LTR, if that makes any sense. I've met several singles and a couple. Some nice down to earth, and some batshit crazy. What surprises me a bit is that I have yet to meet up with the same person more than three times. What seems to happen is we meet, have a good time and meet again one or two more times then they fade away. At this point I'd like to meet up with someone that understands I have limited time and a very busy life, but I would like to meet up with one person or couple that I can be friends with as well as play with, as time allows. I might sign up as a paid member one last time and see what happens.

I just wish everyone would treat this website for what it is....a sex site. I prefer to not get too personal. I'm not looking to settle down and get married. I see many here seem to be looking for love. I've very surprised at a woman that posts a picture of her cum filled face and says there here looking for love and marriage

Here is what you will get from me....
-Respect
-No pressure
-Zero expectations
-A guy who knows meeting for a drink may not leaed to anything other than just a drink.
-A guy who wont get too personal or ask too many questions.
-A guy willing to pay for a clean room at a nice hotel (if it goes there)

What you wont get
-BS
-Drama
-Marriage or a loving (other than just as friends) relationship
-An invite to my home or to meet my family.
-An insulting email if you reject me. (not everyone will get along with each other)

Personally I could give a shit less if you judge. If I send you an email a reply would be nice. Tell me I'm ugly and turn you off if you want. I can take it. A thanks, but no thanks works too. I won't bug you if you aren't attracted.

Now lets see if anyone ACTUALLY wants to have some fun.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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