Unable to reply to IM or messages, however, see my blog. It's not difficult, do not IM me if you want a chat! If you want a chat read my blog. Yes. I am a real person and for those who match my criteria i will tell you more about me, my likes, dislikes, pleasures and secret desires. I have been in two sub relationships before, both of which i enjoyed immensely. To serve and please a mistress is like nothing else in the world. To know that everything i do is at the behest of my mistress who will either be pleased or angry is a real turn on. Both parts, pleasure and pain! I am also a switch, in that i love to be able to be in a position where i have a slave/slut under my control. To know that I control that person and she will not hesitate to carry out my commands is again, a satisfying feeling. So, to all you dommes and subs out there, come along and chat, what have got to lose? Nothing, but potentially everything to gain. I'm David, sometimes Davina, seeking playmates, subs or dommes, been kinky all my adult life, I am firm, explicit and dedicated, respectful, subservient or harsh, take your pick. I am an average white man, practice mutual respect and discretion. I am not so bothered about physical appearances, more the person and the communication skills you possess. Photos / questions please ask no reasonable offer refused. At the moment i am only a standard member so cannot read messages or answer IM, however, for those who are intrigued or want to know more, check out my blog, leave a reply or just contact me?

理想の相手： My Ideal Person Relaxed, intelligent, honest, funny, in need of discipline, wants the deep and profound dynamic which is D/s , willing to try the obedient life. On the other hand if you are looking for a sub, someone who will, treat you with respect and service, then I can be counted on to please in that respect too. Also willing to chat openly before meeting.

Update June 2020.....I have discovered cross dressing and found I really enjoy the feel....check out my pictures

My Ideal Person Ideally looking for a mistress or sub in the local area.

I am a switch but prefer to be submissive to mistress. I am located in County Durham and am looking for someone on a regular basis, but preferably during the daytime only as I am with someone at the moment, but who knows, that may change

As for paying a tribute, if you intend to go down that road, please do not contact me. I will not pay any tributes. This is purely a sexual relationship, nothing more at this time. maybe things will develop into more with the right person, who knows?

If you want to know more, please get in touch.

I am very oral and tactile and like to pleasure when i am allowed to do so and love to take my sub in hand and allow her the pleasure of my depraved and kinky mind.

What have you got to lose?